School visits are most informative when parents know what to observe beyond presentation.
Key Observational Signals
Watch for:
- ●Transitions between activities
- ●Staff tone during correction
- ●Sensory environment management
- ●Pupil autonomy vs control
These factors predict lived experience.
Questions That Reveal Reality
Ask:
- ●"What happens when support staff are absent?"
- ●"How are behaviour incidents recorded and reviewed?"
- ●"How do teachers adapt lessons independently?"
- ●"What does a difficult day look like here?"
What To Avoid Asking
Questions like "Do you support SEND?" generate rehearsed answers. Focus on specifics.
Bring evidence to visits
Many parents bring our reports to visits to focus conversations on relevant risk areas.
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